| Chapter 7 - The killers of excellence |
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- Fear of failure and fear of rejection \"Whatever you can or you think you can, begin it. Courage is in itself genius, power and magic.\" GOETHE If I had to mention two factors that most limit the rights of way to a satisfying relationship, without hesitation, have mentioned the fear of failure and fear of rejection is precisely these two emotions make us the most trouble when we try to make friends with a girl. Very often, the very thought of failure, or the possibility of becoming marginalized, paralyzes us so much that we decide to give up the action and thus lose the chance to know the girl and create a satisfying relationship. You could say that if you can not dare to approach an unknown girl, and propose its dating, the limiting factor at this point, you is the fear of failure or rejection. Did you ever wondered what is the fear and the function of it in human life? If not, I will tell you that this is a mechanism developed through evolution, and very necessary to the human race. It is to help people reach their deepest resources, protect them and induce a state of readiness in psychology called \"fight or flight\". |